People are constantly saying that your 20s are for “finding yourself”. We typically start our 20s while in college, have our first legal drinks at 21, fall in and out of friendships and relationships, pick up and quit hobbies, and soon enough we’re a quarter of a century old.
In the first 3 and a half years of my 20s, I was in a serious, long-distance relationship with someone who I believed to be the love of my life. He was younger than me, though not by much. As I watched my classmates get engaged, married, and start to have kids, I knew that I was ready for the serious decisions in life. He was not. As time progressed and he made less-than-serious decisions, we went our separate ways. Maybe one day I’ll tell my story in another post, but today is not that day.
I realized tonight that time is relative. Healing is relative. It may take 1 week, 3 months, or 1 year for someone to tell you that they love you. And it may take 1 week, 3 months, or 1 year for a broken heart to heal. A broken heart may never completely heal, because we’re human and we’re flawed. But it’s how we strengthen ourselves after the broken heart that really matters and eventually that defines who we are.
I’m not completely sure what this blog will be about yet. I’ve heard sometimes it just comes to you as you go. For now, I’m going to use it as an outlet to “find myself”. I might talk about my final days as a college student, falling in and out of more friendships and relationships, and those hobbies that I decide to pick up. Speaking of hobbies, there are a few links that you can find in the menu above or on the right under “MY SITES” . I am very new at photography and only an amateur artist, but they’re hobbies that make me happy and I think working on them will help me define who I am.
XO – MC